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It’s actually makes sense that it is that way too; People who KNOW what love really is don’t think my mother and her actions regarding me were very loving; they don’t think that the way she treated me had any foundation in her love for me.People who had parents who modeled real love, recognize the truth about what love is.For a long time I agreed but I have come to realize that this conclusion isn’t as accurate as I used to think it was.

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If you find that the subject matter I am writing about resonates with you, get this book today! ” and then I have a fear of being judged harshly for it.

This 197 page, downloadable, printable, live linked e-book will put you on the fast track to healing. But your post really helped alleviate that fear for me! Since walking away from the abuse of my family several months ago, I have thought that there would come a day that I might try and make my siblings “understand” just how abused I was and they were too! They need to learn in their own time and their own way.

These comments/emails contain statements such as “my parents beat me but I deserved it”.

Sometimes I get a huge paragraph describing the offences that they endured at the hands of mean hateful parents and the final sentence is “but I know my parents loved me”.

My mother used to say to me that no matter how nasty and mean her own mother was, she still ‘loved her’. When I chose love, I chose life, I chose truth and I chose ME.

When a parent denies their child a voice, blames the child for any traumatic events they experienced growing up while still denying that there even were any traumatic events, and continues to paint that child as “a problem”, “unforgiving”, or any other negative blaming descriptive phrases, ~ There IS NO real relationship between that child and their parents.

I was able to let go of the need to defend my choices when I realized that the way people react to my choices is about them and not about me; people who have had loving parents do not defend abusive parents. Please accept my apologies if I don’t respond to all the comments.

Not everyone is ready to face the truth about their own past. This blog has active conversations on a minimum of 5 posts all the time and generates close to 1000 comments per month.

I have found so much freedom in realizing that I don’t have to explain or justify my decision to draw boundaries with my parents or with anyone else, to anyone. There is a reason that this offends certain people but the reason may not be what you think it is.

There is a reason that some people don’t accept my decision to disengage from my parents and family.

It certainly isn’t what I originally thought it was.

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